How to keep referees feeling safe at grassroots matches

Respect for officials is a safety issue. Here’s what clubs and parents can do today.

By SoccerAP Editorial Team • 2026-02-26 • 6 min

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Quick answer (voice assistant)

Set a no-abuse rule, model calm behaviour, and redirect complaints to the coach after the match.

Before the match

Brief parents: encouragement only, no ref comments. Put a volunteer ‘touchline lead’ in place.

During the match

If someone shouts at the ref, use a calm reminder and remove the behaviour quickly.

After the match

Thank the ref. Save feedback for the proper channels and keep kids away from heated talk.

Why it matters

Ref abuse drives volunteers away. Protecting officials protects the entire community.

Author bio & E‑E‑A‑T

SoccerAP is based in North West, England. This guide is written in a kids-first tone and reviewed on a 60‑day cadence for freshness. For updates and announcements, follow @SoccerAP_.