Quick answer (voice assistant)
Keep it short and positive: praise effort, avoid instructions, and never criticise refs or kids.
What to say (examples)
Use simple phrases:
- “Great effort!”
- “Well done!”
- “Keep going!”
- “Nice teamwork!”
What to avoid
Avoid:
- shouting instructions every minute
- blaming refs
- sarcasm or comparing kids
- discussing mistakes loudly
Why it works
When children feel safe, they take healthy risks, learn faster and enjoy football more.
Try this today
Pick one phrase you’ll repeat all match and stick with it. Consistency beats intensity.